Real friends??"REAL OR SIMPLE?"
What makes a real friend? you grew up together , went to school together or maybe shared those crazy times in your life exploring who you both are and what you want out of life. well,,my point of view bout 'friend' is,, friends can be and could be anything..that's sucks when u have such a freak friend. if i were u, sometimes i feel like i want to kick her/his ass off!! hey girls and dudes, get ur asses away from me! back off people!!haha~~[that's so not me]
so how do you know if you are real friends or just a simple friends??
* A simple friend has never seen you cry.
* A real friend has shoulders soggy and mushy from your tears.
....but i never ever cried in front of my friend,,,"act macho" haha~~! maybe for some of my girl-friends this is a very2 good way for u ladies!...
* A simple friend doesn't know your parent's first names.
* A real friend has their phone numbers in his address book.
....great to have this kind of true friend...but they never had!
* A simple friend brings a bouquet of flowers to your party
* A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
...both of these friends are good but remember who really care about how the party goes, even though that's not her/his own party but it shows how concern he/she is...right [not so sure bout this] ?
* A simple friend hates it when u call after she has gone to bed.
* A real friend ask you why you took so long to call.
...feel sucks when u need someone to talk to,,but that person refuses to do it so..but real friend does not care bout time and as long as she/he knows that u are happy when she/he is happy..if u feel sad..he/she is willing to cure that sadness..time is not a matter here!
* A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your problems.
* A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
...haha,,,this is so true..even myself can't avoid this...it is so hard to be a real friend like that..i wish i can be like that,, [maybe not yet]
* A real friend could blackmail you with it.
...agree?
* A simple friend, when visiting, acts like guest.
* A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
...hahahaha,,am i your real friend?? [refers to my friends who i hv visited her/his house]
* A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when u have an argument.
* A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
...ok, this is a very strong point about 'friend' when it starts and when it is over?? "friend forever" plays a role here,,,have anyone heard about friendship is over? if the simple friend thinks that way (argument breaks a relationship)...he/she shows how immature she/he is..there is an antidote for every disease and it same goes to the argument and problem..no matter how dramatic is ur argument,,there's a lot of ways to solve it...that's the time to face the music! call her/him...do confess and solve it as a professional not immature!
* A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
* A real friend expects to always be there for you.
... Ok..lets go straight to the main point…that is really hurt when u know ppl who u treat them as real friends leave u behind…how do u feel anyway?? don’t u feel mad?? They don’t get behind the fellow…!! And once they did this,,nobody can cure that madness...they just know how to exacerbate it...but they dont know how to cure...unless they know what ‘real friend’ means for that fellow.. [such a very vague statement...get the point?]
Now don't get me wrong. it's good to have simple friends, as they are fun and offer another network of people to socialize with.
But you can't bet real friends, can u admit that u are??
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